DEAR ABBY: My spouse and I’ve been collectively for 26 years. I’m old-fashioned — no Fb or social media, though I do observe sports activities on Twitter. My spouse, nevertheless, is all into it. My subject is, she thinks it’s OK for her social life to be personal. I don’t assume there must be any secrets and techniques between us, and I’m feeling uncomfortable about this.
I noticed one thing that, from my standpoint, is out of bounds for a married lady. After I requested about it, she stated it’s personal and has nothing to do with me. I’m questioning if that is the hill I’ll die on. Touching her cellphone could be a significant crime. However my cellphone is open and she or he is aware of all my passwords to it in addition to the pc. I’m pondering the openness is one-way, and it’s not working for me. Am I an fool, as I’ve been advised? — ONE-WAY IN NEW JERSEY